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当昆兰问简宁：“许大同为什么要承认是自己给儿子刮痧的”。了解他的妻子答道：“因为他是中国人。”简单一句话却道出了问题的实质。在中国人的心中，“家”有着不可替代的重要位置，家庭是中华文化发展最基本的单元和载体。中国人无论走到哪里都会显示出一种难以割舍的亲情，甚至牺牲自己的利益。受儒家伦理观念的影响，子女孝顺父母，在中国人来说是天经地义的事情。许大同没有因为刮痧事件而责备爷爷，而且还想方设法瞒住他。当爷爷得知自己给孙子刮痧引起了麻烦时，独自一人找到大同的老板昆兰，用手语和图画向其说明是自己给丹尼斯刮痧的，这一切都是为了保护自己的亲人。而美国文化崇尚的是平等与自由，他们提倡无论贫富和社会地位高低，人人都尊重自己，不允许他人侵犯自己的利益，同时也尊重他人的合法权益。中国人对爱的表达方式是深沉、含蓄的，但这并不等于说中国人就不爱自己的父母或子女。当丹尼斯和昆兰的儿子保罗因为玩电玩而打架，又不肯道歉时，许大同就当着昆兰的面打了儿子一巴掌。还解释说这是为了给昆兰面子，这使昆兰非常不解。美国人不了解这一巴掌打在了儿子的身上，却疼在了父亲的心上。而美国人更尊重事实，更强调平等，更注重让孩子自己解决问题，他们认为打骂孩子和教育孩子完全是两回事，打骂孩子就是虐待儿童。

When asked Jane Quinlan: "Ning Xu Datong why admit himself to his son scraping". To know his wife replied: because he is the Chinese people." The simple sentence tells the essence of the problem. In the hearts of Chinese people, home has irreplaceable important position, family is the most basic unit and carrier of Chinese culture development. The Chinese people wherever they are showing a strong affection, even at the expense of their own interests. Under the influence of Confucian ethics, filial piety parents, in the Chinese people is a natural thing. Xu Datong did not blame the incident because scraping Grandpa, but also trying to conceal him. When grandfather that his grandson scraping caused trouble, a person alone to find Datong boss Quinlan, with sign language and pictures to illustrate is own to Dennis scraping, all this is in order to protect their loved ones. And American culture advocating the equality and freedom, they advocate regardless of wealth or social status level, everyone respect yourself, does not allow others to violate their own interests, and respect the legitimate rights and interests of others. The Chinese people love the expression way is deep, the implicit, but this does not mean that the Chinese do not love their parents or their children. When Dennis and Quinlan's son, Paul, because playing video games and fight, and refused to apologize, Xu Datong as Quinlan gave his son a slap in the face. This is also explained in order to make the Quinlan face, Quinlan very puzzled. Americans do not understand this slap in the son, but the pain in the hearts of his father. Whereas Americans were more respect the facts, more emphasis on equality, pay more attention to let the children to solve their own problems. They think that child abuse and child education is a different kettle of fish, the abuse of children is child abuse.