一道阅读题 难！

why are so many people afraid of failure? Quite simply because no one tell us how to fail so that failure becomes an experience that will lead to growth. we forget that failure is part of the human condition and that every person has the right to fail. Most parents work hard at either preventing failure or protecting their children from the knowledge that they have failed. One way is to lower standard. a mother describes her child's hurriedly-made table as " perfect I" even though it couldn't stand on uneven (= not same in height) legs. another way is to shift blame . if john fails in science , his teacher is unfair or stupid. the trouble with failure prevention methods is that they leave a child unequipped (=unready) for life in the real world. The young need to learn that no one can be best at everything, no one can win all the time and that it's possible to enjoy a game when you don't win. A child who's not invited to a birthday party, who doesn't make the honor roll or the baseball team feels terrible, of course. But parents should not offer a quick comfort prize or say, " it doesn't matter " because it does. the young should be allowed to experience disappointment and be helped to master it. failure is never pleasurable. it hurts gown-ups and children exactly alike. but it can make a positive contribution to your life once you learn to use it. step one is to ask " why did you fail?" control the natural impulse（ 冲动）to blame someone else. Ask yourself what you did wrong, how you can improve. if someone else can help, don't be shy about asking them. According to the writer, ___________________. a children should learn to enjoy a game that they won't win
b children should be encouraged to get rid of disappointment all by themselves. 请说明正确为什么对， 错误的为什么错？ 谢谢？

解题思路： 根据对文章的整体意思理解进行选择。
解题过程：
选B.
根据文章的整体意思，可以看出一个人不可能把所有的事情都做的非常完美，要正确对待失败，正确态度是独自鼓起勇气通过各种方式摆脱失败造成的失望，然后找出原因，再奋斗。a 的错误之处只看到了文章的表面意思，而没理解文章的深层含义。
最终答案：略