英语翻译For years Tom Anderson's life was withered up枯萎 by the m

英语翻译
For years Tom Anderson's life was withered up枯萎 by the memory of his part in a fraternity友爱,互助会 adventure that resulted in the death of one of his classmates.He and his wife separated after six years of marriage.Then the news about Tom changed.His wife Betty came back; he earned a fine position.One day he told me what had changed his life."I used to think,`Nothing can undo what I have done.' The thought of my guilt would stop me in the middle of a smile or a handshake.It put a wall between my wife and me.  Then I had an unexpected visit from the person I dreaded令人畏惧的,可怕的 most to see -- the mother of the college classmate who died."Years ago",she said,"I found it in my heart,through prayer,to forgive you.Betty forgave you.So did your friends and employers.' She paused,and then said sternly严厉地,坚决地,"You are the one person who hasn't forgiven Tom Anderson.Who do you think you are to stand out against继续抵抗,坚决反对 the people of this town and the Lord Almighty?" "I looked into her eyes and found there a kind of permission to be the person I might have been if her boy had lived.For the first time in my adult life I felt worthy有价值的 to love and be loved." It is only through forgiveness of our mistakes that we gain the freedom to learn from experience.But forgiving our shortcomings doesn't mean denying that they exist.On the contrary,it means facing them honestly,realistically现实地,实际地.Can a person be all-forgiving and still be human?A scientist I know spent four years as a slave laborer劳动者,工人 in Germany.His parents were killed by Nazi street bullies; his younger sister and older brother were sent to the gas chambers.This is a man who has every reason to hate.Yet he is filled with a love of life that he conveys转达,表达 to everyone who knows him.He explained it to me the other day:"In the beginning I was filled with hatred.Then I realized that in hating I had become my own enemy.Unless you forgive,you cannot love.And without love,life has no meaning." Forgiveness is truly the saving grace.

多年来,汤姆‧安德逊的生命枯萎了,由于他的父亲的回忆,参加一个兄弟会的冒险而导致他的一个同学的去世.他和他的妻子分开经过六年的婚姻生活.然后有关汤姆的消息改变了.他的太太贝蒂回来了,他获得一个好职位.有一天他告诉我什麽改变了他的一生.“我曾经想过,“没有能够抵消了.“想到自己有罪就会使我在中间的一个微笑握手.它把我的妻子和我之间的隔离墙.然后我有一个意想不到的访问的人最怕看到的——我的大学同学的母亲谁死了.“数年前,”她说,“我发现它就在我的心中,通过祈祷,要宽恕你.贝蒂原谅了你.这样你的朋友和雇主.“她停了一下,然后厉声说道:“你是一个人没有赦免了汤姆·安德森.你以为你是谁的人站出来,保持这个小镇,万军之耶和华吗?”“我注视着她的眼睛,他发现有一种许可的人可能是如果她的男孩住.我平生第一次我觉得值得成年生活爱和被爱.“只有通过宽恕我们的错误,我们才能获得自由,从经验中学习.但宽恕我们的缺点并不意味着否认他们的存在.相反,它意味着面对诚实,写实的.一个人能够宽恕一切而仍然是人吗?我认识的一位科学家当奴工度过了四年在德国.他的父母被纳粹的街道暴徒所杀害.他的妹妹和哥哥被送进毒气室.这是一个有十足理由去恨的人.但他却是充满了对生活的热爱,他conveysto每个认识他的人.他解释了前几天我:“在开始的时候,我充满了仇恨.然后我意识到在憎恨我已经成为我自己的敌人.除非你宽恕,你就不能爱.而如果没有爱,生活没有意义.”