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It’s not easy being a teenager —nor is it easy being the parent of a teenager. You can make your child feel angry, hurt, or misunderstood by what you say without realizing it yourself. It is important to give your child the space he needs to grow while gently letting him know that you’ll still be there for him when he needs you.
Expect a lot from your child, just not everything. Except for health and safety problems, such as drug use or careless driving, consider everything else open to discussion. If your child is unwilling to discuss something, don’t insist him tell you what’s on his mind. The more you insist, the more likely that he’ll clam up. Instead, let him attempt to solve things by himself. At the same time, remind him that you’re always there for him should be seek advice or help. Show respect for your teenager’s privacy ．Never read his mail or listen in on personal conversations.
Teach your teenager that the family phone is for the whole family. If your child talks on the family’s telephone for too long, tell him he can talk for 15 minutes, but then he must stay off the phone for at least an equal period of time. This not only frees up the line so that other family members can make and receive calls, but teaches your teenager moderation ．Or if you are open to the idea, allow your teenager his own phone that he pays for with his own pocket money or a part-time job.

做一个青少年不简单,做一个青少年的父母也不简单.你可以用你毫不在意的语言让你的孩子生气,伤心,或者不理解你.给予孩子他所需要的空间是很重要的,他成长的时候你得温柔地让他知道你一定会在他需要你的时候出现.
你会对孩子期望很高,但也不是所有的事.除了健康和安全问题,比如吸毒或者不认真驾驶,你要和他商量所有别的问题.如果你的孩子不希望讨论一些事情,不要坚持让他告诉你他的想法.你越坚持,他越不容易开口.让他学会自己处理事情.同时,提醒他当他需要的时候你会随时出现.尊重他的隐私.不要看他的信件,也不要偷听他的个人聊天.
告诉你的孩子家庭电话是整个家庭的.如果他用电话太久,告诉他只能聊15分钟,时间到就必须挂电话,过了15分钟才可以打.这不仅仅有助于腾出电话让别的家庭成员通话,同时也教会你的孩子自我控制.或者如果你思想够开放,就让你的孩子用他自己的零花钱或者打工挣来的钱买一台属于他自己的电话.