英语翻译文：Many people yearn to be more self-confident.Yet they h

英语翻译
文：Many people yearn to be more self-confident.Yet they have no idea how to achieve that objective.They look at others who have the gift and say,“Hey that’s what I want.I hate feeling unsure of myself.I wish I could stop obsessing about what others think of me and quit worrying about disappointing other people.I want to stop anguishing over my decisions and torturing myself about my mistakes.I think it would be so great to feel self-assured,hold my head up high and stand tall.I’ve never been self-confident.I wish there were a way I could be.”
There is a way.You don’t have to be born with self-confidence.Self-confidence can grow and flourish and ripen and blossom until you actually come to feel as though there is a different person inside of you.Here are some insights that might facilitate the quest.
Learn what a self-confident person is really like.They are not cocky,know-it-all people who don’t care what anybody else thinks.They have their doubts.And make mistakes.And are far from perfect.However,they are willing to acknowledge their inadequacies without dwelling on them.They do this by maintaining a sense of humor,putting problems in perspective,and focusing mainly on what they’ve done right,not wrong.
Though self-confident people do believe in themselves,they don’t try to suffocate others with their ideas or beliefs.They are confident in what they know not only because they read,learn and think but also because they respect their instinct,intuition and the unique body of knowledge that they’ve developed by living life.They realize that one doesn't have to be labeled an “expert” to believe in one's own truths.

许多人渴望变得更加自信,然而他们并不知如何能做到.他们面对那些（天生）自信而有才能的人时总是说到：看,这就是我想要的,我讨厌怀疑自己,我希望我不要再为别人怎么看待我而烦恼,也不再总是担心自己会使别人失望.我希望告别我的优柔寡断,且并不再受我之前犯下的错误的困扰.我想能高昂起我的头,挺直的站立,这种自信的感觉一定好极了.我是多么希望有什么方法可以使我变成那样.
的确有一种方法.你不必天生就带有“自信”.自信可以在你心中生长,繁荣,成熟,绽放,直到你真切的感受到在你内心中还有一个完全不同的自己.以下的方法可以缩短你为此的探求.（以下是一些达到上述所说的捷径）
（你）要了解一个真正自信的人是什么样的.他们绝不是傲慢的,只有自以为无所不知的人才无视别人的看法.他们也有自己的困惑,同样也犯错,而且绝非完美.然而他们愿意承认他们的不足之处,而不是掩盖它们.（或是他们愿意毫不掩饰的承认他们的不足之处）他们保持着一贯的幽默感,向别人提出自己的疑问,然后专注于自己所作对的,而非所犯过的错误.
虽然,这些自信的人的确有些自我,但他们不会强迫别人接受自己的观点和看法（意译）他们对于自己（所知道）的自信不仅来源于他们的阅读、学习和思考,更源于他们对自己才能、直觉、和通过自己生活经历所积累的独到经验的尊重.他们意识到一个人不需要给自己贴上专家的标签之后才能相信自己.（或,一个人不需要通过一个所谓“专家”的标签来产生自信）
希望对你有帮助.