英语翻译It is natural for young people to be critical of their p

英语翻译
It is natural for young people to be critical of their parents at times and to blame them for most of the misunderstandings between them.They have always complained,more or less justly,that their parents are out of touch with modern ways; that they are possessive and dominant; that they do not trust their children to deal with crises; that they talk too muck about certain problems -and that have no sense of humour,at least in parent--child relationships
I think it is true that parents often underestimate their teenage children and also forget how they themselves felt when young.
Young people often irritate their parents with their choices in clothes and hairstyles,in entertainers and music.This is not their motive.They feel cut off form the adult world into which they have not yet been accepted.So they create a culture and society of their own.Then,if it turns out that their music or entertainers or vocabulary or clothes or hairstyle irritate their parents,this gives them additional enjoyment.They feel they are superior,at least in a small way,and that they are leaders in style and taste.
Sometimes you are resistant,and proud because you do not want your parents to approve of what you do .If they did approve,it looks as if you are betraying your own age group.But in that case,you are assuming that you are the underdog:you can't win but at least you can keep your honour.This is a passive way of looking at things.It is natural enough after long years of childhood,when you were completely under your parents' control.But it ignores the fact that you are now beginning to be responsible for yourself.
If you plan to control your life,co-operation can be part of that plan,You can charm others,especially your parents,into doing things the way you want.You can impress others with your sense of responsibility and initiative,so that they will give you the authority to do what you want to do.

这是很自然的年轻人是至关重要的,其父母时,并责怪他们最 的误解和冲突. 他们一直在抱怨,或多或少理直气壮,他们的父母是脱节的现代方式; 他们都占有优势; 他们不信任子女,以处理危机的能力; 认为他们讲太穆克对某些问题,并没有幽默感, 至少在父母--子女关系,我认为这是事实,家长往往低估了他们的未成年子女,也忘记 他们如何感觉自己年轻时的. 年轻人往往会刺激他们的父母选择自己的服装和发型,在艺人和音乐. 这不是他们的动机. 他们觉得切断形式的成人世界带入它们未被接受. 所以他们创造一个文化与社会本身. 那么,如果它原来认为自己的音乐或艺人或词汇或衣服或发型刺痛父母 这使他们有更多的享受. 他们感到优越,至少在一个小方法,而他们的领袖风格和品味. 有时你有抗药性, 而骄傲,因为你不想你的父母同意你会做什么. 如果他们没有批准, 看来,如果你是出卖自己的年龄组. 但是在这种情况下,你以为你是哀兵: 你不能赢,但至少你可以把你的荣誉. 这是一种被动的方式看待事物. 这是很自然不够经过多年的童年时代,当你完全在你的父母控制的. 但它忽略了一个事实,你现在开始要负责才行. 如果您计划控制你的生命,合作可以成为该计划的一部分,你可以别人的魅力, 尤其是你的父母,为做事的方法,你想. 你可以让别人用你的责任感和主动性, 因此,他们会给你有权做你想做的事.