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英语翻译We have many differentsocial selves because we see ourse

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英语翻译
We have many different
social selves because we see ourselves somewhat differently with each person we
meet.With a stranger,we may be guarded and unsure of ourselves; a bossy,
critical employer may make us feel anxious and inferior,but a close friend can
makes us feel confident and affectionate.It’s not that we’re being two-faced
or untrue to ourselves.Rather,each of these people brings out a different
aspect of self,which in turn helps to shape the way we see ourselves.Because
of this we need to ask,“are there overly critical people who devalue us?” we
probably should avoid them.“are there others who see the best in us?” perhaps
we should seek them out more often.In both instances,we can change the way we
see ourselves by modifying the social influences on our lives.It would be
foolish to think we can change everything about ourselves in this way or that
we can always avoid negative people.But the notion of fluid,changing social
selves reminds us that we have more possibilities for change and personal
growth than we may be using.
我们有很多不同的社会自我,因为在与不同人相处时,我们对自己都有不同看法.遇到陌生人时,我们会警愓戒备,心存疑虑;遇到一位爱挑剔的雇主时,可能又会令我们感到紧张和低人一等;但与好友相聚时,却又令我们满怀自信、热情洋溢.
出现这种情形,并非因为我们爱做两面派或者言行虚伪,而是因为这些人当中,每一个都能够令我们呈现出不同层面的自我,然後又反过来令我们对自己形成不同看法.正因如此,我们便有必要自问一下:
"有没有一些过份挑剔而会贬损我们的人?" 我们也许应该对这类人敬而远之.
"有没有一些能够识别出我们优秀一面的人?" 我们也许应该多跟这类人亲而近之.
在这两种情况下,我们都可以透过改变那些会左右我们的社会影响,从而改变我们对自己的看法.
不过,别以为我们透过这种方法便可以改变自己的一切,也别以为自己总可以避开那些能带来负面影响的人.然而,"人的社会自我是不断变化的" 这种看法 (the notion of fluid,changing social
selves),却提醒了我们:个人的改变和成长有很多可能的途径,也许比我们正在使用的还要多.